How Do We Find The Will of God For Our Lives?

A few weeks ago I was asked to bring the monthly exhortation to the ladies at my church. I was burdened to present on the topic of God's will because often times in Christian circles we hear "I'm trying to find God's will for my life" or "I wonder how I can figure out God's will?" Many times, a believers are not equipped with the biblical framework or knowledge concerning this topic and the prevailing thought is that God is keeping his will a secret from us which then leads to anxiety which is sin. 

As we examine Philipians 4,